THE OTHER YOU

(Where the healing happens out loud)

What if you’re not broken—just stuck in the version of you that was taught to shrink?

This section is for the sacred in-between:
The moments after the breakdown, before the breakthrough.
The mornings you wake up raw and still try.
The timelines you thought you’d never live to see—and suddenly find yourself standing in.

The Other You isn’t just about recovering from the collapse.
It’s about finding the version of you who never should’ve had to break that hard in the first place
the one still breathing under all the survival scripts, finally safe enough to speak.

You're not here to "be better" at pretending.
You're here to drop the act and become the real one underneath.
The one who didn’t need fixing. Only freedom.

Here, we talk about shame spirals, people-pleasing, rage, social burnout, and survival spells you were never meant to carry this long.

We talk to the version of you who almost gave up—and thank them for staying.

This isn’t self-help.
It’s self-return.
It’s healing through humor, truth, and crow-eyed clarity.

Content is free—but crows like snacks.

Dear Me: I’m So Sorry You Wanted to Die; Thank You for Not Ending It

A letter to the version of me that almost didn’t make it. The one who smiled through the pain, said “I’m fine” with tears behind her eyes, and tried so hard to be good she forgot how to be whole. This isn’t just a love letter—it’s an apology. For every time I abandoned myself for someone else’s comfort. For calling myself lazy when I needed rest. For staying in places that punished my softness. This is the moment I said: Thank you for not ending it. Because now? I love mornings. I wake up with joy. I found love, peace, purpose—and I built a life I actually want to stay for. Read this if you’ve ever felt like disappearing. If you’re surviving your own thoughts. If you’ve been mean to yourself today and you’re ready to stop.

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