THE OTHER YOU

(Where the healing happens out loud)

What if you’re not broken—just stuck in the version of you that was taught to shrink?

This section is for the sacred in-between:
The moments after the breakdown, before the breakthrough.
The mornings you wake up raw and still try.
The timelines you thought you’d never live to see—and suddenly find yourself standing in.

The Other You isn’t just about recovering from the collapse.
It’s about finding the version of you who never should’ve had to break that hard in the first place
the one still breathing under all the survival scripts, finally safe enough to speak.

You're not here to "be better" at pretending.
You're here to drop the act and become the real one underneath.
The one who didn’t need fixing. Only freedom.

Here, we talk about shame spirals, people-pleasing, rage, social burnout, and survival spells you were never meant to carry this long.

We talk to the version of you who almost gave up—and thank them for staying.

This isn’t self-help.
It’s self-return.
It’s healing through humor, truth, and crow-eyed clarity.

Content is free—but crows like snacks.

Tuning My Timeline: Bashar, Bliss, and Breaking Up with the Grind.

This blog is a full recalibration on how we define work, effort, and alignment—through Loui’s lived experience with Bashar’s teachings. It breaks down the illusion of grinding for worth and replaces it with a flow-based frequency: tuning into excitement, emotional truth, and joy as the compass. Through humor, raw honesty, and sacred sass, Loui shares how she shifted from fake effort into embodied flow—and how you can too. Expect energy upgrades, reality hacks, and a brain retraining bootcamp that actually feels good.

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HOW TO STOP BEING A CRANKY LITTLE GREMLIN: Abraham Hicks’ Emotional Scale, Segment Intending, and Why Journaling is Basically Sorcery

This blog breaks down Abraham Hicks’ Emotional Scale, the magic of Segment Intending, and why Journaling is a non-negotiable survival tool — all in plain, hilarious, tough-love language.
It teaches you how to actually climb out of emotional spirals one tiny step at a time, no fake positivity required.
It’s part sarcastic pep talk, part sacred blueprint for emotional self-rescue.
And it’s designed so even your feral, Monday-brain self can actually use it.

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The Magick in Your Posture: Why Changing Your State Changes Everything

This post dives into the true magick behind posture, movement, and emotional state. It’s not about fake positivity—it’s about embodying energy shifts to create real, lasting change. Using teachings from Tony Robbins, Abraham Hicks, and sacred magick principles, it explains how your body, mind, and spirit are casting spells with every movement. Readers will learn how to harness that power and deliberately create their reality, starting right now.

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Dear Me: I’m So Sorry You Wanted to Die; Thank You for Not Ending It

A letter to the version of me that almost didn’t make it. The one who smiled through the pain, said “I’m fine” with tears behind her eyes, and tried so hard to be good she forgot how to be whole. This isn’t just a love letter—it’s an apology. For every time I abandoned myself for someone else’s comfort. For calling myself lazy when I needed rest. For staying in places that punished my softness. This is the moment I said: Thank you for not ending it. Because now? I love mornings. I wake up with joy. I found love, peace, purpose—and I built a life I actually want to stay for. Read this if you’ve ever felt like disappearing. If you’re surviving your own thoughts. If you’ve been mean to yourself today and you’re ready to stop.

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“Nice” Is a Costume and It’s Making Everyone Sick.

Ever feel like being “nice” is draining you dry? Like you're performing connection instead of experiencing it? This blog from Loui Crow breaks down the truth about people-pleasing, trauma bonding, and why “nice” isn’t the same as kind. If you’ve ever felt invisible in conversations, guilty for resting, or lost in false connection—this is your wake-up spell.

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How to Stop Saying Sorry All the Time (Without Feeling Like a Jerk)

Tired of saying sorry for everything? This isn’t about guilt. It’s about unlearning the survival spell of shrinking. Learn why you can’t stop apologizing—and how to reclaim your voice with sacred sass, science, and a spell that actually works.

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They Told Me I’d Never Get Better. So I Changed The Channel.

Feeling stuck, sick, or like you’re living someone else’s life? This blog breaks down how to shift timelines, interrupt emotional loops, and step into the version of you who already feels better—without toxic positivity or spiritual bypassing. No fluff. Just clarity, crow wisdom, and real tools for self-return.

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Harnessing Anger: Transforming Rage into Empowerment

Ready to stop guilt and shame from running the show? Learn how to set boundaries, release guilt, and reclaim your power with Loui Crow’s sacred wisdom. Let go of the emotional baggage that’s holding you back and start living authentically. Read now!

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Let It Go: Reclaiming Your Energy and Stopping the Shame Game

Ready to stop guilt and shame from running the show? Learn how to set boundaries, release guilt, and reclaim your power with Loui Crow’s sacred wisdom. Let go of the emotional baggage that’s holding you back and start living authentically. Read now!

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Why You’re Getting Sick Before or After Social Events (And What to Do About It)

Feeling sick before or after social events? Discover why your body’s rebelling against forced smiles, awkward conversations, and the social grind. Learn how to recognize Social Sickness and protect your energy with Loui Crow's advice.

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