THE OTHER YOU
(Where the healing happens out loud)
What if you’re not broken—just stuck in the version of you that was taught to shrink?
This section is for the sacred in-between:
The moments after the breakdown, before the breakthrough.
The mornings you wake up raw and still try.
The timelines you thought you’d never live to see—and suddenly find yourself standing in.
The Other You isn’t just about recovering from the collapse.
It’s about finding the version of you who never should’ve had to break that hard in the first place—
the one still breathing under all the survival scripts, finally safe enough to speak.
You're not here to "be better" at pretending.
You're here to drop the act and become the real one underneath.
The one who didn’t need fixing. Only freedom.
Here, we talk about shame spirals, people-pleasing, rage, social burnout, and survival spells you were never meant to carry this long.
We talk to the version of you who almost gave up—and thank them for staying.
This isn’t self-help.
It’s self-return.
It’s healing through humor, truth, and crow-eyed clarity.
🕯️ Why You Get Sick Before or After People Time(And What Your Body Already Knows)
This post breaks down why you actually get sick before or after social events—from sore throats to full-body crashes. It’s a body-led rebellion against fake smiles, drained boundaries, and emotional overdraft. You’ll learn the difference between pre-party prophecy and post-party immune shutdown—and what your body’s trying to tell you. Loui gives you the map to cancel faster, recover deeper, and honor your no before it turns into mucus.